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Let's talk RAPE

Well, this is really really impromptu (like every other writeup on this page, lol). Let me start by saying HAPPY FATHER'S DAY to not just those who's given birth but also the prospective fathers out there. And of course, being a father isn't just about 'getting it in, pulling it out, and WOALLA, it's a boy/girl' 🙄🙄 It's way more than that... So, this page is gonna be about me as a Masculinist (let's accept it as a valid word for the purpose of this blog, thank you 😘😘). The inspiration? Common, it's because today is Father's day. Imagine me not putting anything up for women's or mother's day... Well, iono if it counts as anything tho. A few seconds more for paparazzi please 😉... This page is dedicated to my popman. Damn, he was and still is a father even after 7 years and 9 months of transition (I miss you man, you're  the realest, the best 💕💕). So yes, there are 'MEN' out there. And to the awesome guy friend...

Let's let the HE express...

Seems this is going to be one of my few days of exceptions. We're on the HE side, yay!!! 💃💃💃💃 So I was in this seminar few weeks back, a youth seminar, and then we got to the health section and they decided to give adolescents sex education. Luckily, a few parents were in attendance. To the main gist, both speakers kept repeating 'boys and girls, feel free to communicate all changes to your mothers, both the physical and emotional changes.' Did I mention that the anchor of the program was a HE. On getting a hold of the microphone after the lectures, the first thing he did was attacking the speakers. He went 'PLEASE LET THESE CHILDREN BE CLOSE TO US FATHERS TOO, ATLEAST THE BOYS, NOT JUST THE MOTHERS, YOU KNOW WE WOULD BE ABLE TO RELATE BETTER TO THE CHANGES THEY EXPERIENCE, A GUY TO GUY THING' LOL! I couldn't hold back the laugh. He went on, '...you know we men grew up keeping to ourselves, so they may find it difficult talking to their mothers' ...