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Can a woman really do what a man can do?

"What a man can do, a woman can do" is one saying females are quick to. Some of us even make ours longer with a few extra words, "what a man can do, a woman can do MUCH MORE BETTER." Smiles. Why do I feel you guys think I'm talking about me? Well, maybe...but that was in the past. Hey!!! It doesn't mean the statement is false, more like, it's a regular one, no biggie about it.

It's like saying "JUICE/ANY KIND OF DRINK IS SWEETER THAN WATER." Like, who doesn't know that? But does that mean you can forever delete water from your list? It's a NO!!! They all serve their purpose, they are complimentary, not unhealthy rivals. In the same vein, MEN and WOMEN ARE ON EARTH TO COMPLIMENT ONE ANOTHER, THEY ARE NOT COMPETITORS!!!

Maybe my water/juice analogy doesn't even qualify it, cos we can still decide to do away with the supplement (juice), but never with water. I said my analogy may have a loophole 'cos no one gender can do without the other right? If not, God wouldn't have made two physical form of man.

But also, critically looking into it, what type of boring world would we have had without water supplements? That's why God allowed even palmwine, the most natural and waterlike supplement, and ofcourse, today, we have too many that they can cause us health issues 🤷🏻‍♀️

My point? Men and women aren't competitors. Trust me, every right thinking woman want to have a man to shelter her in every form of the word. I've never doubted that. (You can read up the last paragraph of my second post here). But one gender thinking the world revolve round them and that they can do and undo, illtreating, cheating, silencing the other gender? THAT will never go well with me. Annoying thing is, men who do/think these are the laziest, unruly, broke set of people. All they have is their 'manhood', so you wouldn't blame them when they start ranting.
And against such, I think we all should rise and fight. Feminism, like I'll always say, is NEVER a dumb course. It is in perverted feminism that you WILL NEVER find me.

And yes, feminism is a thing 'cos it's way more easier for women and the girl child to not have a voice or lose it than it is for men. No one is saying guys don't have their share of things, just that statistically, theirs is lesser than that of females. Added to the fact that men always wanna "man up" and die slowly...

Here are a few links to statistical review on the preceding paragraph. You can also read up more...
https://www.thehotline.org/resources/statistics/
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Domestic_violence_against_men
https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS

Araba Iyanuoluwa .T.
EyilZ ☺😊

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Comments

  1. Maritime News and Gists28 September 2020 at 09:54

    Brining in a blend of religion makes this piece from my end,a master pierce.
    Need I let you know that I don't think there I have com across any word like "perverted feminism".
    Feminist will always be feminist extreme till they get a good sex and a Hood in a man to be loyal to all their life.
    All men are created/born equal, but I believe more in equity than equality.
    Lastly, I would prefer if the entire course of feminism is championed towards standing up against the gender abuse and not just on husbands /boyfriends,we have abusive bosses,lecturers,religious leaders, customers/clients etc.

    I must commend you for such an intelligible piece, you have proven mastery and crafty pennings overtime.

    More ink to you pen.

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