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Apologies 😔😔

Ok. So I really don't know how to go about this, I'll just try and do me as usual... This will be a lot of mumble jumble. (Me to you, read paragraphs 2,3 and 6 and save yourself some stress... 😎)

So, I've been off for how long now 😔😔 And not just that, even when I wasn't so away, I was erratic. My apologies. Truth? Sometimes, I feel I'm not reaching as much audience as I envisaged. Some previous articles get more reads than the most recent, it's like the audience traffic is falling instead of rising. But then, I realized, it really isn't about quantity but quality. If the one person who checks this page is transformed, looks forward to more and spreads the gospel, then the impact is made...

To the few friends and anonyms always asking for more, for the inspiration, I'm really grateful and so sorry for letting you down.
But then, I still want more traffic guys, let's leave the tens and hundreds... Yeah, I have a part to play, 'gotta be more committed and constant right? Noted 😊😊 I'll turn a new leaf. No promises tho, lol. Just kidding.' Lol. I know what you're thinking. The page isn't earning no income, pure passion. But maybe we can do that with time, whayasay? ☺🤗

Also, I will like to correct a wrong notion. My page is majorly committed to addressing erroneous thoughts, beliefs or/and actions right? But then it tends more to the ill-treatment of the female folk,say 95%. Yeah, even I know this, but then, this doesn't mean feminism is my only content. There is a few tending towards the masculine side right?

I'm not just trying to balance up. Like I do say, I don't do fiction. It's easy to just go online, read a couple of news, get triggered, then I'm back here and having like 10 posts per day. I can do that. Ofcourse that is needed to get better at my 'blogging' (Yeah, 'blogging' in quotation 'cos I still don't see this as blogging nor regard myself to be a blogger. Not inferiority, but I'm just not sure I'm there yet. When I get there, I'll know... Some of you are thinking ''thank God she knows right?'' No comments, I love you still...) Well, I don't just pass comments on things read. Most times, I write from my thoughts and experiences; first hand witness mostly, that's if I'm not the central character. Now that's one reason I'm not always writing...

Summary of all the jumble from paragraph 5 is, my page isn't just about feminism or 'masculinism' (you get the point 😊😊), it's more. And from now, it might even be a little more, broader scope. Praise God the blog is titled 'EYILZ' PEN' , MY pen, so please allow me to just write... And just incase anyone has a topic they'll want me to look into, you can drop a mail... aitemtop@gmail.com...

I love us all. Lol, yeah, US. I love me too 😍💗💗

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