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...not the society's definition of you 😕😠

Maybe I'm not much of a writer after all, at least, not fictional. How do y'all ever do that so well?
Anyway, to why I'm here...

...I've once shared this, although to a lesser audience...
Guys, please have a grip on yourselves. Hello, just because a lady knows what exactly she wants from life and she's going all out to get it and because she knows what she's worth and carries herself with all of the confidence in the world coupled with integrity doesn't mean she would be less of a fine wife to her husband. What exactly do you measure the 'wife material' with anyway? 😏

Because she wouldn't settle for any random bearded or non- bearded built or not so built man does not also give you a chance to run mouths on her, saying she'll forever remain single except she mould her own kind of perfection. PFF!

Can I have a sec baby girl? Sweetheart, chase your dreams with all of you; all of your heart, all you've got. You're getting married to a man, not all the males in your life, so, why should you live your life impressing them all? Your 'HE' will love you as you are girl and you'll also recognise him without stressing much, so, why the fuss? Just make sure to WORTH YOUR WORTH. And ofcourse, DON'T FAKE IT. Be yourself. Be happy! You aren't obligated to be the society's kind of 'lady or woman', dhurr. Be your kind of lady or woman!

And guys, not all ladies are interested in marriage. After all, not all guys are too, "abi, kini gan?" {What exactly is all the fuss about?} Marriage isn't for all!

Hello! Hey! Yes, I'm calling. I'm not anti-marriage ooooo. I think I once mentioned being a crazy romantic 😁😁

One more thing. Enough of forcing the "cooking is my hobby" down the females' throat. Girlfriend, you should know how to cook tho, you need to cook some really nice delicacies for you sometimes, you need the treats ☺ But then, we didn't come to earth with constitutions saying she must love cooking. There are numerous hobby options to pick from.
NOTE: I can't cook and I don't like cooking are different things. Most people can write, school notes, text messages, short notes to friends and all, but we all mustn't like writing right? I'm talking poems, stories and all. I go to school doesn't guarantee me liking school, dhurr...

Ok, I'm done, need me some sleep.
Even I am surprised at the two writeups in a row. This isn't the writeup I was talking about tho, this' another 'by the way' writeup ☺
Wait up 😊😘😘

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