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...coat of many colours...

Yeah, I know I did put myself out the last time, being particular about dates I upload 🙁🙁 Now ion have nothing to say but this friend of mine bumped into my DM yesterday 😏 So, we're here to keep our words 💃💃 But really, I'm blank, you know your girl wouldn't cook up something abstract plus this next two weeks are crazy, I'm not done wrapping my heads around it just yet. Anyways, let's talk...

I'll just again drop my 'two cents' as regards rape... Whoever is raped, male or female (my last post justified it on the male's side yeah?) may never heal while some may, after what to us may seem as eternity, but then, the wait is worth it, let them heal. It isn't easy to open up, but when they do, even when you know deep down it is all lies, let them still have this sense of acceptance, what if it is the truth? Moreover, both the liar and the rightful victim must have summoned some courage to accept rape abuse and more courage to speak up... Summary is, don't just punch holes into peoples' stories, it isn't fair...

Also, I was on a celeb's Instagram page yesterday and I saw a clip where a man was 'slapping up' a lady all because she said ''take it easy Sir.'' And in the comment session, I learnt it isn't something recent since the man in question is now a senator and that had happened before he entered politics or so and that he was there to fight the cause of his sis who is being ill-treated and all (although I don't understand where beating up another female for a female speaks justice. Not beating up a man either, it's barbaric 🙄🙄 Go about it the civil way  at least. But then, what do I know?) Well, that again isn't a topic for discussion, I wasn't in that past plus man is a senator, running mouths on what I have no idea of? 🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃 Girl don't have anyone in politics o, wisdom is profitable to direct 💁

(Breathes heavily!!!) So now that I'm done running... My summary is, females in this country, despite this 21st century are still faced with unfair situations. After all, they aren't as strong to withstand even the most feeble guy. Wanna know the truth? Sometimes, even I am scared someone doesn't run an underground check on me and come beat me up. Lol! Sounds funny but it's the truth. We have little or no covering.

There was a time a man was even telling me ''I love the idea behind your page but be careful. Some guys, knowing what you stand for might approach you in disguise solely to bring down your walls and break you emotionally.'' Truth, yes, it got to me. But what I don't really get is, no offence, but when all you think of is hurting a female physically or emotionally, all because you feel threatened by her words or actions, does that not make you less of a man? 🤔

P.S: Please don't come for me. To start with, I don't have strength, I can't fight 😞😞 Second, I can't handle any heartbreak. Just a ''small girl with a big God'' trying her little best to influence her world in her best way, making sure she's heard. 'I'm for all' and 'for no one' at the same time...😇😇

Phew! This is so unorganized (just as I am at the moment), but I hope we get it...

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