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The Ideal Personality Trait, Introverts/Extroverts?

You know I should've dropped this the same day as the last one, pff! I've got a lot of working to do as regards this procrastination... Thanks for bearing with me still 😊 Ok! To why I'm here. This' gonna be as fast as possible, low battery 😞😞

It's a lil diversion from gender activism. Say personality activism? Does that even make sense? ☺ You know, the introvert-extrovert thing. Please read on...

It's funny how being an extrovert is the normality while the 'one in a hundred' introvert is the outcast. Imagine some even tagging it AUTISM! (I'm a living testimony, pff!) Like for real? Autism? All because I'm no fan of lousy and gregariousness? So I've got a neurological disorder? Oh boy!

I was reading an introvert related work, imagine this guy asking the author to keep him anonymous, saying because she has come to terms with her being an introvert doesn't mean everyone has. I was awed! I never thought anyone could be battling with this particular personality trait I so treasure, no offence. It's like fighting yourself cos you're a female, or a white/black, tall/short...

Lol! Only if you know how much I disagree when being regarded as an ambivert and not an intro. Fine, I've learnt to strike a balance but then, isn't that what life is supposed to be about? Moderacy? (Philippians 4 vs 5). Extrovertism wouldn't get you to certain heights, neither will introvertism in its entirety. But then, this doesn't mean some are better off. Else, you're no different from a sexist, racist or whatever.

For reals tho, why would I not love being an intro? You get as much fun in solitude, you get to travel in thoughts, get as creative as whatever, you look as fine and fresh being indoor with nice treats, you're as vast and knowledgeable as you want. Damn! This' enviable. And according to Susan Cain's The Power of Introverts, research says acting falsely introverted can lead to stress, burnout and cardiovascular disease. You'll help preventing untimely death by letting people be you know?

The most annoying part is, you trying to have a 'ME time', reflecting, and people asking 'what's wrong', telling you to 'snap out of the sadness' and giving you sermons about how all is def going to end well, PFF! Who doesn't know that? I've got God, dhurr! 😕 Hey, I'm not saying don't be concerned anyway...

Truth! Most times, I pity extroverts. Do they ever get time to think things through? Ever get to learn new stuffs? Ever shed tears? More reason the majority of suicide victims are extros, clowns/comedians especially; society makes them feel they're obliged to stay happy for them, and never getting to shed off some weight, they drown in them... I'm not saying extroverts ain't smart or great or have their awesomeness, that's not it!

Simply put, there's unity in diversity... Growth in diversity... Peace in diversity, let everyone alone. If we were all the same, we would all have died of boredom you know? And all these articles on 'how to love an intro', 'how to be friends with an intro', blah blah blah, like we're some charity case, it's annoying! Hello, no one was born an extro or intro, we all are products of the society.

INTROVERTISM ISN'T CHARITY CASE
INTROVERTISM ISN'T AUTISM
INTROVERTISM ISN'T SHYNESS... I know shy extros, it's just a lil more common with intros...
INTROVERTISM IS INTROVERTISM!!

For the records, EYILZ is a proud introverted gender activist!!! Yaaaay!!! 🎉🎈🎈🎊🎊🎉💃💃

Tell me this was short! 😉😂😂

Comments

  1. Beloved4 April 2019 at 14:52

    Yup.. It was short
    Message well delivered
    Really good piece..

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  2. Anonymous6 April 2019 at 10:43

    Really? All i smell is shades,,,,,we are coming for you,,,,#proudextrovert

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  3. ÉdimòT12 April 2019 at 04:50

    I reallllllly love your writing style... Very engaging Philippians 4v19 though...We that are Buddhists nko

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    1. Eyilz12 April 2019 at 14:05

      😂😂 Didn't mean to cross the lines, just that that's my model, lol. But, as long as we're communicating... Thank you ☺

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